The Hidden Limit in Your Career

What if the biggest thing holding back your career isn’t visible on your resume at all? Not your title. Not your experience. But the story you keep telling yourself before you even apply.

In psychology, this is often called a limiting belief—a subconscious narrative we adopt over time, usually to protect ourselves from rejection or failure. But ironically, those same stories become the very reason we hold back.

From my coaching conversations, I’ve met so many brilliant professionals—sharp, capable, deeply committed—who quietly carry doubts like:

“I’ve never led a team officially.” → So I can’t be promoted.
“I changed industries too many times.” → So I must look unfocused.
“My background doesn’t match the JD exactly.” → So I’ll probably get rejected.

These aren’t facts. They’re internal scripts—reinforced by past feedback, comparison, or fear—that shape how we show up, speak up, and go after opportunities.

Instead of “I’m missing something,” shift to “Here’s what that taught me, and why it matters.” 

Reframing quiets the inner critic and signals to others: I know who I am, and I know what I bring.That’s how doors open.

From Doubt to Recognition-One client’s breakthrough moment:

She’d been leading cross-functional projects for years but held back from applying for leadership roles.

“I haven’t had a formal manager title,” she told me.

We reframed it together:

→ “That’s why I’ve learned to lead without authority.”

→ “I build trust across teams and influence without relying on a title.” 

That reframe didn’t just change how she spoke—it changed how others saw her. 

Try this 3-Step Career Reframe

1. 1.     Doubt – What do I believe disqualifies me?

2. 2.     Flip – What did I learn or build because of it?

3. 3.     Impact – What does that help me do now?

E.g., “I don’t have startup experience” → “I’ve learned to drive innovation in a corporate structure” → “I can bring scalable thinking to a fast-moving team.”

Try this on 2–3 of your “weak spots.” You might just uncover your edge.

Let me be real: it’s not about pretending. The ceiling isn’t your title or accent. It’s the story you tell yourself before you even begin. You don’t need to be perfect—just stop playing small.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Yina is the Founder of New Bloom Consulting & Coaching and

a seasoned HR consultant and career coach.

With over a decade of experience at Nike and

membership in the International Coaching Federation,

Yina excels in organizational talent development.

She offers multilingual English, Mandarin, and Korean coaching,

working with clients from diverse backgrounds to achieve fulfilling careers.

Connect with Yina to transform your career with confidence and clarity.